tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post2036577306688047028..comments2023-06-13T06:33:44.194-04:00Comments on The Politics of Love: The Code of HonorPolitics of Love Chickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11421579067319511724noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-30091356088101201612009-08-20T15:30:11.339-04:002009-08-20T15:30:11.339-04:00I hate home wreckers too. Don't worry for a ma...I hate home wreckers too. Don't worry for a man, once a cheat always a cheat and they both will get their karma. It comes back around 10 fold!!Lisa Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10804271783316686349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-39843010702506707012009-08-20T12:02:46.885-04:002009-08-20T12:02:46.885-04:00I went to college in TX and was in a sorority. Amo...I went to college in TX and was in a sorority. Amongst the bizarre rules I learned as a pledge was the dating code. You had to ask permission to date a sister's ex before you went out with him in order to not have calamity in the House. It was crazy, but it really helped keep friendships alive... I'm with ya.<br /><br />Saying hi from SITS! What a fun site!the BLAH BLAH BLAHgerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18080257870764974777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-24797619311358180232009-08-19T16:55:47.997-04:002009-08-19T16:55:47.997-04:00I am with you wholeheartedly. More importantly, th...I am with you wholeheartedly. More importantly, this should not have to be explained!!! But you did a damn good job of it. :-)rachaelgkinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-76192709741035186222009-08-19T15:23:44.293-04:002009-08-19T15:23:44.293-04:00Eva- thanks for dropping in Eva.
Skylar's Dad...Eva- thanks for dropping in Eva.<br /><br />Skylar's Dad - I think you might have a bigger problem. Do I need to do an article on loving your pets 'too much'? LOL<br /><br />Penelope - welcome :) I hear you on being married and perhaps not caring but if I weren't it would seem like a huge conflict of interest if a friend dating someone I was romantically involved with.Politics of Love Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11421579067319511724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-62994522174832358972009-08-19T12:42:03.174-04:002009-08-19T12:42:03.174-04:00Thank God this has never happened to me, but it ha...Thank God this has never happened to me, but it has happened to a friend of mine & I know how much it hurt her & it's just common sense you DON'T do that..<br /><br />"common sense is apparently not that common."GypsyFoxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16831124113335061685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-41434990027711389632009-08-19T10:05:46.319-04:002009-08-19T10:05:46.319-04:00I'm not sure how I feel about this. Since I am...I'm not sure how I feel about this. Since I am now married, if a friend dated an ex (it would be unfair to my husband to harbor feelings for an ex) it should technically not hurt me or bother me. <br /><br />Then again, if I was left by someone I loved, for a friend, that would kill me, so it really depended on the circumstances (that has not happened, but I can see where *that* is practically a sin, especially if it's a spouse that left, and *because* of a friend. <br /><br />For a friend to date an ex boyfriend though? I don't think it would bug me.Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15718128591448417498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-37238835839097692362009-08-18T23:56:56.112-04:002009-08-18T23:56:56.112-04:00Completely unrelated, and doesn't pertain to m...Completely unrelated, and doesn't pertain to me of course, but how do I have to wait to get involved with a friends ex barnyard animal?SkylersDadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18264164502733912326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-89625409177309870142009-08-18T22:28:50.625-04:002009-08-18T22:28:50.625-04:00I totally agree.
stopping by from SITS to say h...I totally agree. <br /><br />stopping by from SITS to say hi; hope you'll do the same.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03803472040500529682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-19826851754547367892009-08-18T18:12:32.010-04:002009-08-18T18:12:32.010-04:00No excuse. No double dipping.No excuse. No double dipping.JenJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13118893759726079685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-46974333220566287692009-08-18T15:53:54.558-04:002009-08-18T15:53:54.558-04:00OWO - Thanks :) be emailing u soon.
LM - isn'...OWO - Thanks :) be emailing u soon.<br /><br />LM - isn't it?! I never thought to tackle it from the point of insecurity - very interesting.<br /><br />AS - Hey, nice to hear from you again. I've had that happen to me - a so called friend testing the waters with my then boyfriend. I don't think the emotions are going to change even if you become enemies, fact is you were friends when the incident happened.<br /><br />I think nine times out of ten they don't really want the other person they just want what you have. In my case my so-called friend needed to know what made me so special that made him want me over her. She made a play for him and it didn't work. But ask me if we're friends now ...that a big fat NOPE!Politics of Love Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11421579067319511724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-5139949290681991862009-08-18T15:39:26.639-04:002009-08-18T15:39:26.639-04:00“Your crap runneth over."
Love this!
I must...<i>“Your crap runneth over."</i><br /><br />Love this!<br /><br />I must agree. It's one of the most popular - yet often violated - unwritten rules of friendship. Hands off the ex! There are too many fish in the sea for the sad excuses.<br /><br />So ... what if you and your friend become enemies? Then is it okay? Do you really like the guy or are you simply trying to burn the former friend even further? Thankfully I've never been in a situation like this.*Akilah Sakai*https://www.blogger.com/profile/04916459493624762479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-71838003273430726552009-08-18T13:06:25.234-04:002009-08-18T13:06:25.234-04:00It's amazing what we will do because of insecu...It's amazing what we will do because of insecurity.Hipstercritehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02168118598530462596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-62207227194107543662009-08-18T13:04:26.175-04:002009-08-18T13:04:26.175-04:00Wave your hands in the AIIIR! High five! Ect, ect....Wave your hands in the AIIIR! High five! Ect, ect.<br /><br />I hate it when people find this concept too hard to grasp. <br /><br />And the candy in the mouth comparison...perfect, miss. Perfect.Alysonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05318995922395308120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15016503.post-70689387224959511492009-08-18T12:44:14.124-04:002009-08-18T12:44:14.124-04:00Sounds like you had a friend who was really not a ...Sounds like you had a friend who was really not a friend. There are certain boundaries between friends that should never be crossed and getting involved with a current or ex is one of them. No excuses.The Peach Tarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587235197620014751noreply@blogger.com