Tuesday, June 30

Interview With A Guy: The Big 'O'

Politics Chick: So you figure most women lie about orgasms, huh?

Guy: Yes.

Politics Chick: I’m assuming you’re speaking from past experience. Why do you think you've been lied to?

Guy: Oh I know I’ve been lied to, my ex once told me she faked them with me. Maybe she lied because she was mad I broke up with her, but hey, I guess it could have been true. I'd rather know that I haven’t given you one than be lied to about it. I hate the lying!

Politics Chick: Maybe she wasn’t satisfied and didn’t want to hurt your feelings, so she fibbed about it.

Guy: Well, put it this way ... women, if you cum and you enjoy yourself let me know with your moaning. But if you don’t reach that ‘O’ status I want to know that too. It's better for you... if I think I'm giving you orgasms, then you'll never reach one... but if I know you haven't yet, then I'll keep trying harder to get you there and someday you will!

Politics Chick: So you're saying you won’t be deterred by it but spurred on?

Guy: Exactly ... if you haven't reached that point, then I need to do better. But if I think I'm already doing that, there's no reason to improve. Does that make sense?

Politics Chick: Yup.

Guy: Now if you laughed at me and said something like "you suck at this" or "you're too small”... Those types of things would be hurtful.

Politics Chick: To say the least. Do men fake it I wonder?

Guy: How would we fake it? I mean, you can tell if we cum and we can tell if you're wetter than normal.

I think most men think if they cum then they've had an orgasm and I have to be honest, I'm not sure if I've ever orgasmed. Not sure I know what it feels like to have that feeling of going beyond …

Politics Chick: I believe it’s entirely possible for a guy to pretend he came. But hey we don't have the same equipment so maybe I'm wrong. But it occurs to me that women are motivated by good sex and the emotion and when one is missing then the goal of the “O” is lost. Some men must require both (few I bet).

Guy: Actually, now that I think about it some more... I have noticed a difference from time to time so maybe I have. Who knows?

Politics Chick: Um, I think if you’d had you would know. I’m just saying…you know? You’ve nothing to be ashamed of.

Guy: I’m not. Why would you think I’d be…

Politics Chick: Anyway - my ex had said something to me before about not being able to orgasm because his girlfriend at the time started to feel like more of a friend than a girlfriend. He fakes it because he doesn’t know how to tell her that she doesn’t turn him on anymore. So I guess guys do pull a fake every now and then.

Guy: I did find that at the end of the relationship with my ex I was never in the mood even though she still looked the same as when we started dating and she still had great moves in bed. But I just couldn’t get aroused. We lived together and probably didn't have sex once the last month we were together, she would try and I just couldn't and didn't want to. Something just turned off.

Politics Chick: Ouch...it doesn't get anymore humiliating than that. Not to get technical or anything, but that not faking, that’s just not doing it.

Guy: Well I felt bad! Doesn’t that count?

Politics Chick: No.
**For the record, and before I get the angry emails. I do believe in Global Warming


thatdesigngal said...

Very interesting...Stopping by from SITS, throwing you a bit of love!

Looking forward to reading the rest of your blog!

Karen said...

It's always interesting to hear the guy's perspective on things. Thanks!

Merritt said...

Guys can totally fake it. Because honestly, unless we're waiting for it just be over (which is just kind of sad) would we even always notice if he did or didn't? I don't think I would.

Lelali Di said...

Love it!

The Politic's Chick said...

That designgal - thanks for the love, I'll be visiting yours as well.

Karen- what's up!? Any new doll adventures?

Merritt - umm the guy gave me an answer to your question. I just don't know if you could actually handle the answer. haha

Lelai - you know what I want to know! haha

the girl said...

Funny stuff, my friend :P That poor bloke! Oh, and I loved that picture - wonder if that particular anti-global-warming demonstrator has some issues with 'faking'?

otherworldlyone said...

I've heard guys say they've faked it.

I agree with what he said in the beginning and I think most guys tend to try harder when they know you're not getting there. Then, of course, there are those that just don't give a shit.

Cool interview.